Last night I started reading a book called “The E Myth Revisited” a book by Michael Gerber about small business and how to be successful. I came across a passage I want to share with you. It expressess some of our challenges we face in our fight to get healthy.
Let’s take a look at two personalities we’re all familiar with: The Fat Guy and The Skinny Guy. Have you ever decided to go on a diet? You’re sitting in front of the television set one Saturday afternoon, watching an athletic competition, awed by the athletes’ stamina and dexterity.
You’re feeling sluggish in the face of all the action on the screen when, suddenly, somebody wakes up in you and says, “What are you doing? Look at yourself. You’re fat! You’re out of shape! Do something about it!”
It has happened to us all. Somebody wakes up inside us with a totally different picture of who we should be and what we should be doing. In this case, let’s call him The Skinny Guy. Who’s The Skinny Guy? He’s the one who uses words like discipline, exercise, organization. The Skinny Guy has just taken over. Watch out – things are about to change.
Before you know it, you’re cleaning all the fattening foods out of the refrigerator. You’re buying a new pair of running shoes, barbells and sweats. You have a new lease on life. And you actually pull it off! By Monday night, you’ve lost a kilo.
On Wednesday, you really pour it on. You work out an extra hour in the morning, an extra half-hour at night. You can’t wait to get on the scale. What you see is… nothing. You’re exactly the same as you were on Tuesday.
Dejection creeps in. You begin to feel a slight twinge of resentment. “After all that work? After all that sweat and effort? And then – nothing? It isn’t fair.” You go to bed, vowing to work harder on Thursday. But somehow something has changed.
It’s raining. The room is cold. Something feels different. What is it? For a moment or two you can’t quite put your finger on it. And then you get it: somebody else is in your body. It’s The Fat Guy. He’s back! He’s running the show again.”
The thing we have to understand is the fat guy and the skinny have different needs, different desires, and a different way they see how life is to be lived out. It’s the internal struggle that we all face when it comes to living a healthy life. Like or not we have a daily fight with spit personalities. Until one begins to recognize this internal struggle, becoming healthy will not be easy. Even for myself, the fat guy wants to take over. Just this morning I think I hit snooze 8 times and had a million excuses but I knew what I need to do.
Who will you listen to the fat guy or the skinny? One is competing for you to make smart choice and the other wants you to be successful at channel surfing and buffets. The fat guy will not go away over night but you have to take it one battle at a time till you have one the war.